I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
Not too much happened this weekend. I called in sick Friday cuz I just didn't feel like being bothered with my supervisor. I was supposed to clean and do laundry, but I just hung around my babysitter and her kids. We had a blast.
We went to choir rehearsal on Saturday and it kinda was a waste of time. But the Pastor said he liked the way I could keep up with my voice going up a few octaves. I'm not a professional, but I can carry a tune a lil bit. Hung with the babysitter again cuz she had a big bbq and I got to meet alot of her family. Me, her, my sis, and her neice talked for awhile and my sis told me that my grandmother and them are leaving to go to Minnesota on Sunday, so me and my sis went over to say goodbye. She also let her kids go.
No what is crazy about this whole trip is that my grandmother and everyone in the household knows that they have no gas. It got turned off a couple of months ago. So why in the fuck would you went a car and drive to another state? Yep that's right they fucking have no gas but they took their money to make their lil trip. My sister even pond her kids off with them and gave them a combined total of $30 to take with them to spend. What the fuck is $30 gonna get 2 greedy ass kids???????? She is so fucking stupid. There is no way I would send my kid with them with no money. Then I don't know how they are supposed to get there and back cuz my grandmother was trying to ask my mother could she borrow some money. I JUST DON'T GET IT!!! I told my mom that everyone in that house is a ding bat. I just refer to them as the "HOUSE OF DING BATS"!!!
So anyway I'm there and my both my neices (14 and 12) were there hanging with my cuzin (she is 14 also). We were all in my cuzins room and my sis comes up there and the girls (the two 14 year olds) wanted to know somethings about sex. So their 1st question:
What is an orgasm?
What does it feel like to actually have sex?
Does it hurt?
Does having babies hurt?
Do you let a guy go down on you? Do you go down on him?
To interrupt, when my 12 year old neice heard that my sister goes down on a man, she started crying!!! It was funny!!! I just looked at her and asked in my concened auntie voice and said "AHHH honey does it bother you that your mom sucks cock!!!??" The 14 year olds fell out laughing and my 12 year old neice put her head down in shame and cried some more. Then after that she hit me!!!!
Then they asked if we ever let a guy do you in the butt?
Then they asked if we ever had a guy lick your but?
When we told them yeah and said it's a lovely thing, they all squelled YUCK and was like I'd never let anyone do that. We was like just wait till your older, you'll understand. Then they were like naw some guys at our school do this. What the Fuck??!!! I can't believe how kids are just soooo open about sex and all. They don't think that nothing is wrong with meeting a guy for the 1st time and going down him the same day!!!! I don't get it.
But after anwsering their questions, we also told them the importance of holding on to your virginity as long as you can. My sis told them that they don't want to get pregnant young like she did and I explained to them that they also don't want to have a kid before their married cuz it's really tough. So they told us that they weren't doing it (God I hope they aren't). And if they start doing it, please get on birth control and use condoms!!! We also went over personal hygiene and presenting themselves as young ladies.
I never thought in a million years that my neices would come to me about sex. I was so happy about that. When my sister left, the 14 year olds told me that they feel more comfortable coming to me more than my sister. Cuz my sister can be mean about things cuz she did all that shit when she was younger. I just explained to them, that eventually their gonna do it, just don't do it cuz all the other girls are. I told them I didn't listen to the other girls even though they teased me. I was 19 when I finally did it. Try to make it special because when you lose it, you can never get it back.
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