I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
Well "B" day finally came and is over. I left work around 2:15pm and went to the ATM to get my cash. Left the bank and headed out on I-80 to Ottawa. It was a long drive, but my music kept me company. It took about 40-45 minutes to get there. I know that doesn't seem like a long time, but it felt that way to me since I didn't know where the fuck I was going.
I get there about 3:10pm and the lawyer has 2 receptionists sitting there. Told the one my name and she asked to see my 2005 tax return and my pay stubs. She makes a copy of them and asked me to have a seat in the lobby. About 5 minutes later, the lawyer comes out and comes to me and says hi. I follow him to his office and he asked me to have a seat. He has paperwork in front of him and looks at my pay stubs and comes up with a number of how much I get a month. Then we went down the list of "ALL" my expenses.
Groceries & Toliettries
Then he asked if I could have a "Garage Sell" about how much does he think I could get of it. More than a $1000 or less than. I said less than. I didn't lie because my new bedroom set is technically not mine yet cuz I'm still paying for it.
Well basically I was in the whole by the end of the month when he worked the numbers, which he was trying to prove. But what was funny, was that when we were talking about groceries, he asked if my son wore diapers. I tried picturing me changing a 4 year old and while picturing this, I gave him the "What the Fuck" look and was like ohhhhhhhhh noooooooooo!!!!! He looked at me and we both started laughing. He told me that I know some of the questions are stupid, but he had to ask me.
Then we talked about my sister's car. I wanted to make sure (again) that nothing would happen to her. He asked me what is the deal with it. I just explained to him that I co-signed and I show primary and she secondary on the loan. So he was like it was fine nothing would come of it but he had to write it down with the note on the side.
So anyway the paperwork process took about 20-25 minutes. He told me not to pay any of my bills on my credit report. Basically everything except my student loan and my sista's car is getting wiped off my credit report. I was done in no time. I get up and he told me to see the receptionist to make another appointment to finalize all the paperwork and to pay my $100.
But the fucking kicker about my sista's car is that she is going around trying to make me look like the bad guy about the whole situation. She went over my Grandmother's house last week and griped to her about it. Of course, my grandmother gets on the phone and tells my mom. My mom stuck up for me in the BIGGEST WAY (yay mom, I love ya). My mom told my grandma that my sista could of paid that car off earlier this year cuz she got almost $5000 on her tax return, which was more than enough to pay off the truck. But no, she went and catered to her sick **choking** "HUSBAND" in the hospital. The only thing she really did with that money (that I saw) is that she got her truck fixed. I think she only spent $700. So people tell me where did almost $4300 go!!!???? My mom also mentioned when I got my return, I paid off my shit!!! So my mom told my grandma that this is my life and my choice and I had to do what I had to do. She didn't feel sorry for my sista AT ALL!! Well of course my granma didn't know how much my sista got and was pretty surprised when she heard the "WHOLE STORY"!!!
I know I am going on another subject, but do you people understand why I don't have sibling relationships???? My sista will do everything in her power to make herself look like the victim. UGGHHHHH!!! Sometimes I really want to choke the living shit outta her!!! We really don't even talk anymore. And I personally like it like that. That way she can't beg for money and stuff and we don't argue. The only thing that hurts is that me and my son don't get to see the kids as much. And they all love each other. I know this is bad to keep the kids away from each other, but you don't know the half of what I go thru with her.
So anyways, it's a done deal and I can finally move on with my life. I will be done with everything in a couple of weeks. I've never been this "Happy" in awhile!!! And next week, me and my son will be celebrating!!! YAY!!!!!
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