I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
I'm back and much much betta then I was last week. My chest is still kinda tight, but I'm here. I really really thank everyone for wishing me well.
I've got so much to talk about. From my hospital visit, to my son's screening, I don't know where to start.
I'm at work and talking to my girlfriend and we are trying to ponder over a situation we both are going thru. I went thru it last year and she is presently going thru with it now and she doesn't know how to cope.
Last year I had a friend who I considered to be my best friend in the world. I've mentioned her in a couple of my previous post. She was like a sista to me. And what I mean by a sista is that we fought (man did we fight), but somehow we always got over our differences. She knew me betta than I knew myself sometimes. And it seemed to me after she got married and started her first real job, things changed. We didn't hang out anymore like we used to. Our kids didn't know each other when we were around each other. The whole relationship just gotten weird. And I kinda mentioned to her about what was happening. I even told her that I think you don't wanna hang around me anymore cuz with you being married now, we don't have nothing in common. She didn't even respond, she just ended our conversation. I really didn't think it was the distance, cuz she was only like 40-45 minutes away. But it was getting to the point where I was getting "penciled in" to see her and hang out with her and the kids. But it was always, I'm so busy. But if you were busy how come you were always going out and making plans with your "MARRIED" friends?
Well then after that her and I got into an arguement over my cuzin and her planning her H.S. reunion, and that was last time I ever talked to her. And I think the arguement was just a cop out because I didn't fit into her "NEW LIFE".
But to all my readers, especially you married ones, does everything really change like that when you become married? My girlfriend is going thru the same thing with her best friend. He got married in 2004 and hasn't spoken to my girlfriend since. She goes outta her way to email him, call him and to no avail, she gets no response. And it's driving her crazy. I can really sympathize with her but I don't get it cuz I'm not married. All I know is I'm a single mother who has a busy life too. My son is busy from the time he wakes up till the time he goes to sleep. I have a full time job, but I ALWAYS manage to pick up the phone or make time for family and friends. Even if I can't hang out or call theres cell phone (with text messaging), theres emailing...it's just no EXCUSE!!!! So people what do you think?
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