I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
Man I haven't wrote for awhile. And as always, there's drama. On Tuesday my son's father (No Nuts) told me he would pick my son up from the babysitter. So I said fine and that I would just swing over to the library and pick up this book one of my girlfriends told me I should read. So when I get home, my son is there with my mom and he wasn't. So I asked my mom where was he. She said he left the baby here and said that he had to make a run. Why couldn't he take the baby with, I asked. And my mom said she didn't know and got very upset. Not the part about watching my son, it just that my son's father does this often. Will say he has to make a run, and up and leaves as he pleases. So she told me that when he returns, don't bother opening the door since my son wasn't that important to him. So I didn't. He rang and rang and rang the bell. He knocked and knocked and knocked. Finally he gave up and went back to his mother's house where he called and left an ignorant message saying that if I didn't want him there I could of been of woman and told him so in person. So of course, I got mad and told my mom to call there since I don't like talking to his BITCH ASS mother. So I asked him why did he leave the stupid message. He come telling me that he didn't appreciate that. I told him that he shouldn't just left my son like that, I can't just up and leave when I want to!!!
So my mom basically took over the phone and told him he wasn't no man because he can't even stand up to his own mother. She told him that you won't even stand up for your son. She keep mentioning his mother so until he said, "Do you want to speak to her"? My mom was like put her on the phone, I ain't scared of her!!!
So then my mom straight out asked her why she don't never come or call and see about her grandson. She simply said it because I call her all types of BITCHES. Whatever!! What a lame excuse. So my mom, in a nutshell, told her off. She said don't worry about noone loving him on that side of the family cuz his mother's side gives him plenty of love. She got so mad that she hung up on the bitch. So I might as well call her a BITCH since I wasn't before. BITCH, BITCH, BITCH!!!
You know the sad part of this is that I feel much better that she knows that she can just kiss our ass, but I know for a fact it won't change anything. I am trying my best to get stronger, but there are sometimes I just breakdown. It kills me that my son's father (AKA No Nuts) is weak minded and that his grandmother (AKA BITCH) is heartless. How can you dis-own your precious grandson? Just because you so-called can't stand his mother? People please holla if ya feel me!!!
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