I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
Hello blog fam. How was everyone's weekend? I had a blast on Saturday and Sunday kinda sucked.
Earlier last week I found out my son's father has a new job that entitles him to having Saturday and Sunday off. So I asked him since he has this Saturday off, can he watch our son the whole Saturday while I went and had the whole day to myself. I thought I made clear that I wanted ALL of Saturday to myself. So he's like yeah, no problem.
Saturday comes and he gets over my place around 11:30-11:45am. Cool cuz I was gonna meet my girlfriend for lunch around 2pm. Around 12:30-12:45pm I'm in the bathroom and he comes up to me and asks "What time do you think you'll be back"? I'm like why does it matter? He's like cuz I have to be somewhere around 4:30-5. And I told him sorry but I won't be back in time. So he walks away and rolls his eyes. I'm like why are you getting an attitude when we agreed you'd have him the whole day. He's like noone has an attitude. I'm like so why did you roll your eyes and he's like just cuz I rolled my eyes don't mean I have an attitude. WHATEVER!!! I'm not about to aruge with this negro and have him walk right out my door.
So around 1:15pm I leave to meet my girlfriend at Yorktown Mall and we had lunch at Ed Debivcs. I would not recommend this place. The whole concept of treating you rude just didn't sit with us. The food was yummy, but I'd never eat there again. It was cool that we tried it out though to get our own impression of it.
So then after lunch, we hit the mall and did some shopping. I'm having the time of my life. We took a small break and got something to drink. And this is some of the shit we witnessed on our way to sit down and enjoy our drink.
This is some of the stuff we saw at Spencer's
I love this one cuz it gets right to the point!!!
This would of been cute when my son was a baby.
And this is what I noticed when we sat down. This broad had to be like 50 in the face and the body of a toothpick. Her pants were painted on her and these Spice girl shoes she was rocking was to die for.
And there was another pic I couldn't get, but trust me if you saw it, you would've laughed your ass off!!!! This lady was dressed in all black and a straw hat. She had to be 60-70 and she looked like a witch or a gypsy!!! And this white woman had walked passed her and stopped in her tracks to get a look at her. I laughed so hard I almost had an asthma attack. You just had to be there to get how funny it was.
So then after all the shopping we were going to do, she wanted to make it an early nite cuz she didn't have any head lights. I'm like why don't we go to the auto part store and have them put them on for you. She was absolutey stunned that they did this. So after that she was ready to hang out some more. So afterwards, we went to the bar called North Beach. When we worked together we used to hit this bar up all the time.
So we are there and started with a Vodka and cranberry. It was kinda strong so I asked the bartender can she make me another drink with vodka and she said sure. She made this drink call the bomber. It tasted like the Bombsicles you used to eat as a kid. It containced UV blue, cranberry juice and a splash of 7-up. They were good and of course I'm starting to buzz.
So around 8, I call my mom and told her what my son's father had said and asked her should I call to check up on my son. She was like don't worry about it, I'll do it. You just keep enjoying yourself. So then 5 minutes later she called me back and said that my son was ok.
So around 9pm my phone rings and it's.....MY SON'S FATHER. He's like what time do you plan on being back? And I'm like why does it matter. He was like cuz all you said you were going to do was go to lunch and go shopping with your girlfriend and I was like we did all that and now we having a couple of drinks. He was like you didn't mention that you were going to a bar. And I'm like I'm not 12, I don't have to tell you all my where abouts. So then the fucker starts to go off talking about that because of me, he missed out on $200. I politely walked to the bathroom and just went off.
I was like, I made it clear to you that I was having the whole day to myelf, what part didn't you understand? I'm with my son 24/7 and you get him one day and you can't handle it. Then this negro, excuse me NIGGA had the nerve to say......What kinda of mother are you where you coulnd't even call to check and see how he's doing!!!??? You'll know I blew a gasket after he said that right? After I completely snapped I said you knew about my plans so you should of made your plans on Sunday, gotta go buh-bye and kindly hung up the phone.
About 30 minutes later, he called back and apologized and asked me what time I was coming and I told him I don't know and hung up.
So afterwards some of the girls sitting next to me heard what I was going thru and bought me some shots. After a a couple of jagerbombs and a lemon drop I drank a couple more bombers and was FUCKED UP!!! So around 11:00-11:30 me and my girlfriend said goodnite. On my way home, I called Mr. B and if it wasn't for him, I would've let him have it again. But he talked me outta of it and calmed me down.
So when I got home, I pulled up in my parking lot and sat there for a moment talking to Mr. B. I looked up and saw his shadow in my patio window and hung up with Mr. B. I went in, noticed that my son was still up around midnite and kissed him goodnite and I showed his father what I bought for my baby and said thank you to him. He left right after that.
My Sunday sucked cuz I got a migraine in the late morning. I wasn't hung over, but because I needed glasses for reading and looking at the computer screen all day. So my Sunday sucked ass.
I finally got my glasses yesterday and my head feels so much better. Man is it going to take some getting used to with glasses. It's weird!!!
I know this was a long posts, but hope you enjoyed my Saturday like I did.
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