I'm a single black mother that is raising a wonderful lil boy!!!
Why can't I get along with my sistas like a "NORMAL" family would? I swear my sista's are from another planet. Or maybe I'm from another planet!!! I'm not even gonna say that I hate my sista's, because hate is a harsh word. So I will say that I dislike alot of shit that they try and pull.
My oldest sista hasn't spoken to me in over 2 years!!! We might say hi to each other at family functions, but that's it. Is it my fault or hers? I let you be the judge of that. I will take you back when I was pregnant with my son. Me and my mother had a house together. My oldest sista was having trouble at home with her husband, back then boyfriend. And she also just got fired from her job. So she wanted to leave him and start all over again and live in a different atmosphere. She wanted to know if she could make her transition staying with me and my mom. At the time I thought it would work out because she didn't have a job and she could care for my son when I went back to work. So she was there like at my last days before I had my son. She was great cuz she had 3 kids of her own and she taught me alot. When I wasn't feeling good, she would run me a bath and pamper me. When I had my son, she would make sure I would get up and walk around and make sure that I ate right. She spoiled my son rotten. But then she started talking back to the boyfriend and he came back into the picture. Now this muthafucka was ignorant to no end. He would come in people's house and not speak and when he did speak, it was all cussing and whose ass he was gonna kick. Then I was getting upset at her and her kids because they were nasty. We had 4 bedrooms, one for me, my son, my mom and the 4th was a guest room. I gave her the guest room and my son's room and he moved in with me. But everytime I would go in the room, I'd see fucking Kool Aid stains on the floor (even when my mom said no eating in the rooms), shit breaking down, and just down right FILTH!! So of course I would comment on it and she'd act like this wasn't my house and I had no say so. But I would get the billing statement where we would pay the mortgage and ask her whose name showed 2nd on this sheet...DON'T GET IT TWISTED BITCH!!!
So to make a long story short, my mom kept warning her about her boyfriend. Then the fool turned around and married him. So then my mom kept warning her about her husband. She kept saying to stop bringing him around until he had the decency to act and speak appropriate in our house. So of course she didn't. He'd still come over and talk hella shit. To one day my mom was over my younger sis's house and I was at the house by myself. My car wasn't there so it looked like noone was home. As soon as I heard the door open, I knew who it was, so I turned off my TV and locked my door. Well he brought back the kids and starting talking major shit. Like if anyone touched them, to fuck them up and fuck us we ain't shit kinda speech. So I called my mom and told her he'd been over and what was said. So she was on her way home. He had left but he came back later that nite. My mom told my older sis she better not let him back in the house or it'd be some shit. So of course they got into it and the next thing I know they are fighting!! I mean they are going toe to toe. My older sis is fighting our mother over some nigga!!!??? So my mom was tapping that ass. My sis is bigger than us and she used her weight to push my mom against a wall and to get free licks. I see this and jump in and this time I'm on my sis's back punching her in the head. My mom comes back with a baseball bat and beats the shit outta my older sis.
Now her husband returns to the house and my mom met him on the front porch. She told him he wans't allowed back in the house and they got into and the next thing I know, they are on the front lawn and my mom is beating his ass!! Well I was about to jump until the fucking cops came and threatened to spray mom with mase. You ask, but this is her property why is she getting threatened by the police? Because the cop didn't know, all he saw was the woman kicking this man's ass. He had to react on what he saw. So my mom kicked her and the kids out and she hasn't really spoken to us since.
Now my younger sis. Me and her were close when we were younger. It pretty much changed when we got interested in boys. My sis was wild and I was the quiet and shy one. So of course all the dudes chose the wild one. So of course when you sleeping with all these dudes and you don't use protection all the time, you can get pregnant. So she did, and at 17 she had my neice. Now my neice is here and my sis still thinks she can be wild. Well she pretty much dumped my neice on me and my mom. When my neice was like 1, my sis dumped her on us to raise her while she went to be with this dude. This shit happened for a while. She would find a dude and leave her daughter to be up under him and the last guy she left for a long time. And the only reason my mom would let her come back was because of my neice. She was her fucking scape goat.
Well it had stopped, my sis got her a job and took care of my neice. But everytime she needed something, me and my mom was there to bail her out.
So then she started messing around with a married man. She was so sure that he would leave his wife for her (because she had a golden pussy) that she wanted to have his kid. So of course she ends up pregnant again. So now she has a kid with a married man and the guy goes back to his wife!!! Did you see that coming?
So to make a long story short of my younger sis, she is the type to think if she messes up, me and my mom got her back. Like I mentioned before, she was with this older dude. She hasn't even been with him a couple of months and she's in love. But in the midst of all this love he finds out he has colon cancer. So she vows to be there for him thru thick and thin cuz she loves him. And don't get me wrong, I'm all for stand by your man but don't forget about your priorities, which of course she did. She neglected the kids to be by his side. They basically stayed with my grandmother until he died. And I have a problem with that because niggas come and go but your kids will ALWAYS be there. I'm sorry for dude dying but my sis didn't have to do things how she did.
Ok so, for the longest time, she knew that her job was downsizing departments. Her department was closing down in June. So to her that meant, find another job or when they downsize work in anothr department for less pay. She knew about this, but like I said her job at this moment was to care about her sick boyfriend. She neglected and neglected it until now. Now that he is dead and she by herself again. So what does she do? Call Kasandra to look on the internet to find her a job!!! WRONG!!!!!WRONG!!!!WRONG!!! Bitch you are sadly mistaken this time, I don't think so!!! So this bitch has the nerve to get mad at me!!!! And she hangs up on me too!!! HA!!! WHATEVA!! But guess what? I don't care if she tries to cuss me out, I still ain't doing it.
So now that I shared this with you, I want your HONEST opions! Am I wrong and overacting, or should I just cater to my sista's because that what sista's do?
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